On my last day at Millefleurs Lavender and Honey Farm in Prince Edward County I saw a deer in the lavender field.

Aunt Carol and I two metres apart:
I was visiting Gail and Shanda for about a day and a half and it was very hard to say goodbye to Gail. I know she is mourning and there is little I can do for her. She's very strong and independent, but Pete was much loved and is greatly missed. He was a gentleman, very fond of horses and dogs, and steadfastly connected to his family. It's not easy
Isn't she beautiful? Yes, she's little, but she's a black belt in Taekwondo, and even though she's out of practice, I wouldn't mess with her.
I include this picture because shortly after this, Wilma called to me saying I had visitors! It was Aunt Marion and Uncle Jim! It was so nice to see them. Aunt Marion and I shared the problem of "not hugging."
Jim took a picture of us "distancing" by two metres, and not hugging. Unfortunately, the picture didn't turn out, so we can't prove it! So I included the picture of the deer.
I went to visit my aunt, Gail, who is a year younger than me and who recently became widowed when her husband (my "other" Uncle Pete) died unexpectedly. She works in a grocery store, so we allowed ourselves to visit each other without the two metres. It was wonderful to be with her and I got to spend time with my cousin Shanda while I was there too! Shanda looks so much like her Dad, who she is, of course, missing. Because Gail and I are the same age, we grew up more like cousins, and so Shanda is more the age of my kids.

While Gail was at work, I went next door to Uncle Pete and Aunt Carol's house for lunch. We kept distant. I ate at one end of the table and they at the other. Here are Uncle Pete and I hugging at a distance:

for her.

I'm so sorry for her and your loss, Lynne. She seems lovely and I'm sure he was too. Glad you are connecting with family; these times of being so apart are so tough for many. Love and Joy, Cathy xo
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